Endometriosis, Hormone Imbalance, Souper Stars

Jamee Miller: Creating a Normal Life While Dealing with Chronic Pain

hormone health problemI’d love for you to meet Jamee – she writes over at “A New Kind of Normal” – a blog dedicated to life living with chronic illness. Not only is Jamee’s blog informative, it is beautiful both in its aesthetics and message –  life carries on through love, faith, family and support.

I  had originally contacted Jamee to discuss her journey with Endometriosis, however I feel that she is  also an excellent resource for those facing infertility, and those learning to advocate for themselves. Enjoy!

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What impact has endometriosis had on your life?

Endometriosis has impacted my life in every way possible. I have had six surgeries total including a total hysterectomy at the age of 26. Despite every effort to manage my endometriosis from surgeries, treatments, and second/third/fourth opinions, I have started the disability process at the ripe old age of 32. The crippling pain is obviously made a huge impact on my life but the mental, social, and spiritual impacts of illness have also been a struggle.

I feel like I’ve lost a sense of control in my life. I have always liked to have a plan and for things to be structured but in the years since my diagnosis, I have had to let go of the perfectionist/Type-A aspects of my personality. I spent so much time beating myself up for not feeling like I wasn’t enough because I couldn’t do x,y, or z so I’ve had to relearn some ways of thinking about myself.

How important has your blog been to your experience as someone who lives with a chronic illness?

When I started blogging, I could have never imagined the impact that blogging has had on my life. It started as an outlet for my feelings while we were going through fertility treatments but I never had any idea that anyone would ever read it. But as time progressed, I discovered that there was an online community of warriors battling endometriosis/chronic illness just like I was. I was able to become a part of a community where someone could say “I understand” and mean it. The support I’ve received the in the years since has been amazing. I honestly do not know what I would have done without it. I would suggest for anyone facing endo (or any other chronic illness) to become a part of the online community, even if you don’t want to blog there is a place for support on Twitter/Facebook/Forums.

What do you wish everyone knew about endometriosis?

A hysterectomy is not a cure. I have been told so many times that because I’ve had a hysterectomy I should no longer be in pain because endometriosis cannot recur after a hysterectomy therefore my pain isn’t real. Also people don’t realize how a hysterectomy impacts so many aspects of your life. It isn’t just a physical surgery.

What are 3 things you wish people didn’t say to women with endometriosis?

1) I have bad cramps, too (endo is sooo much more than cramps).
2) Just have a hysterectomy (see question #3).
3)  At least its not cancer (So true but just because endometriosis isn’t terminal, it doesn’t make the pain less real and it had a HUGE impact on quality of life).

How important has being your own advocate  been in receiving appropriate treatment?

If I could give someone newly diagnosed any advice, it would be to become your own advocate. I have been blessed with having an amazing doctor from the start but by being my own advocate, I have been able to become an active participant in my treatment. I have researched treatments to know the pros and cons. I have been able to chose to get second opinions when necessary to move forward in treatments. It is so important and it is important to have your spouse/significant other to become an advocate as well to help in situations were you may not be able to advocate for yourself (after surgery, etc).

 

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